Children and Grandchildren

In my love for children and grandchildren, I was really challenged and convicted with Psalm 17:13-15, "O Lord...deliver my soul from the wicked...from men of the world, whose portion is in this life, and whose belly you fill with your treasure; they are satisfied with children, and leave their abundance to their babies. As for me, I shall behold your face in righteousness..." Is it possible to put children first? To think we are successful if we have lots of children are able to leave them an abundance?